He says he's fine. You know he isn't.
You've seen him change since the loss because you're the one living with him. This is a five-minute assessment that will help you understand what's likely going on with him, and what actually helps.
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You see it even when no one else does.
Maybe he's shut down and you can't reach him. Maybe he's buried himself in work. Maybe everything sets him off now, and you're walking on eggshells. Maybe he's the rock everyone leans on and you're the only one who can tell how hard it is for him.
He's doing everything he can to keep going, but he's hurting himself and the people he cares about most.
It'll help you understand what you're seeing.
You'll answer short questions about what he's been doing since the loss, the things you can actually see from the outside. It'll show you which of four ways he's likely protecting himself, what tends to help you support a man like that, and what tends to push him further away. It can't read his mind, and neither can you, so it's honest about what you can't know from where you stand.
And you don't have to figure it out alone.
After you go through the results, there's an interactive coach you can talk it through with. It knows how you answered, and it's there whenever you need it. It's a tool, not a person, and it isn't therapy. It's a way to make sense of who you're living with and think about what to do next.
If it's more serious than that, it won't pretend otherwise.
This isn't a diagnosis. If what you describe points to him being in real trouble, or to you not being safe, it'll say so plainly and point you to real help, wherever you are.
